Shouting Leads Nowhere
There's this guy that came and have a quarrel with me, saying wut asking for my dad's phone number (so call threat) which ends up when i offered it to him, he replied, "why i want ur dad's phone number". What kinda guy is that who wants something which he doesn't need?
Tell you something that might laugh ur stomach out. When he arrives at my door, he juz honk from inside the car and didn't even intend to knock on the door. What kinda "gentleman" does that? Well, i didn't know it was for me until i finally open the door out of curiosity. What surprises me most is when he came in with THREE (3) handphones!!! Why does he have all those handphones and not knowing how to use them? Why he doesn't saw off his hands if he doesn't know how to use them to knock?
Then he talks about wut i spoil his reputation where he is shouting that loudly in front of the car porch. Wut nonsense is that?? Well, with every threat he is actually hitting himself. Something like what i've learnt in Tai Chi. When he's trying to shout, i ask him if he can actually shout louder. And he points the finger at me, challenging me to ask Irene out (if i dare)...it's not like i'm chicken or wut, i don't see any logic in why Irene needs to fit into the equation.
Then he comes out with all these issues of me spoiling his reputation, what more can i do when i see a guy brings back a girl other then his own girlfriend? What better thing i can do then quietly inform his girlfriend, who turns out to be someone who i know for a long time. Well, maybe there's a lot of unfortunate people who are not being taught the skills of communication. They learn, and they forget, sadly the number of these people are still plentiful even after being learning from higher institutions.
Oh well, i guess all i have to worry is the safety of irene and also that of my own. These type of people might say that they can do anything and everything to you. But...if u fall into their trap, u'll fail. Juz talk as what a priest would, and u'll get over with the situation.
No matter if the person spread rumours about you over the net, or even threaten you in a face to face conversation, 1st thing you have to do is to cool down, keep calm, and concentrate on what he's talking about. Talk back only when u found a flaw on his conversation. And most important of all, never shout against each other.
"Talk sense speaks louder then shouting"
1 Comments:
man..what a jerk..no need to fight with this kinda guy. wil just lower ur class. pui..
but u better take care of irene and also ur own self's safety. u never know what this kinda people are capable of doin.
take care k.
Yi Ling
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